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Smile

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The best and the worst in life come free to us,

its all about meddling in between & the price you pay for it.

Scared To Change

One of the biggest paradox in human existence is change, everyone of us yearns to be something/someone else or a few good noches above where they stand at the moment but the problem is people only want it, they don't do it . A human being is capable of achieving every single thing they want the problem is short an precise they are scared of change .We are always clouded by thoughts of how it would be post the change, people are scared of loosing their ever existent legitimate tranquility sack they have been comfortably romancing with (however bad or stereotype) it may be.
Everyone one of us wants to be different & recognized and have solace but the question is how many of us really defy the thin line that moves our desire from a want to have, how many make that change happen?
Desire is an integral part of human being since the inception of living being but how many of us really work towards a real change they want. All of us are lured by the usual dreams we see when someone else states their ones.

Why do we have to look for our life and establishments in someone else's dream ? Why cant it be solely ours or why can't we work hard enough to make it happen ? Want the change, be the change thrive towards it and everything would turn your way if you want it by all your heart and soul , cause freewill aces it all may it be your fate , boundations and customs .
So Take your chance choose the change and it could be from the smallest of levels as to how you move, talk or walk to the biggest leaps in humanity across oceans and mountains .

How many of us are ready to take the leap of faith and turn our cycle back from nemesis to genesis ?

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Progression

Be proud of what you've earned and value what you got

Times have been a whirlwind of change for us all , People have changed leaps and bounds getting into something new and experimental every single day of their lives , every 5 years there has been a proven generation gap, the level of understanding between two people from different generation decreases with the age gap.

We should all be proud of what we have,Its common human nature to ignore whatever we have and run for something else as they rightly say "the grass is always greener on the other side" but the reality is sure different the same thing has no potential value when it comes without you working hard for it but the same thing has immense value if you put in your hard labor for it, Its just about how we perceive thing be a thankful happy one grow and work generously but don't be a fool and lead a crazy non satisfactory life only jumping from target to target and exhausting all your time be a human not a machine.
Enjoy the little moments in your life let them soak you up one by one be drenched in happiness, joy , pain, melancholy cause when you look back you'd be happy that you outperformed them all and you stand tall here with your head held high.
The very day you start to enjoy those little moments and value them you grow bigger in your own little cast and brighten up inside out.

Are you ready to get drenched in the real moments of life and be the happy one?

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Soothe

Fearing or Loving

We the people are puppets steered by a fuel name fear , that's how crippled we have become . we adhere to it with all our souls and beliefs of sheer  deftness , That's the atrocity of life for now of a common man. There are really simple questions everyone of us needs to ask his own self -
 Are we really loving class or fearing class?
We claim to love god but do we love him or fear us being doomed if we fail to obey?

People instead of loving god develop his fear which is crept in since the day they are born initially the parents guide us then its the extended family , then friends , then the apex religious preachers (who barely show you the right path these days), Then we become so sublime that we start absorbing any such thing we hear from any place and develop a blind followance to anything without using a piece of brain. Few take the highways and become right-winger extremists here. That's what makes us a fanatic without even realizing the intensity of it.

I'd say be a devoted lover don't be an insane questionable fanatic driving frenzied . Love with all your heart and be reasonable to your own self don't fool or kill people in the name of god . No religion in the world tells you to do so be humble give all your love and you will get it back more then you would have given . As for people do the same but just don't be blinded be reasonable to yourself too . As the famous saying goes "God helps those who help themselves" . Remember to love but dont let them override you and love with all your heart and soul.

 Are we capable enough to love with devotion and instead of simply being crippled down by fear?

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After your numerous failures of spreading your lower limbs to attract the opposite sex ,

Try and open your upper limbs to do so .

The versatility of loneliness

Being lonely(single) is arguably the most powerful tool of human existence . It can take you to any extreme if its self chosen or not forced upon by surroundings then human excels to vertical limits of his goals and outshines as an optimistic achiever in world eye but when the same thing is merely forced upon or given uncalled for to someone without his personal preference of choice he breaks down gets to his knees and cannot think on a parallel level to a normal person.

  It is a cycle of life to be born,  loved by everyone and then be on your own and do the right thing by stepping away at the right time . Although it in no sense means that you should ram everyone around you like a mere bug on a given chance and grow at their cost but to set you goal and move ahead without being trapped in a relationship is a reality to be seen with open eyes .

  We have proven examples to this which we could observe with our bare naked eyes across the globe we could look into Asian history and observe that all kings and queens ruled for a certain age and stepped aside when they felt the younger generation was all ready to reign ahead of them . In the Indian Hindu culture we can see that the people at that time had there lives separated in 4 different stages that were pre-determined and they would act accordingly and lead a life of solitude as they enter the 3rd stage http://hinduism.about.com/od/basics/p/fourstages.htm

  For a more simple example we can see that all animals/birds give birth to their young-ones feed them and take care of them till a certain age then they one fine day they let them go , be on their own cause that's the course of nature.

  Now the big question is how sooner or later are you ready to accept it ?

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Life's short to hate even shorter to bend & mend.

There are times in life when you feel you would be hated for your brutal honesty but the point is "should you let it go?"

Most people legitimately claim to be honest set of people some rare breed don't . From all those big claimers there are majorly 4 categories that i could mark out -

1. The one's who are plain simple liars and claim they are true occasionally/mostly getting caught then accepting their brazen lie .
2. The one's who are also lairs but prove it right to a set of people with their might.
3. The one's who are say/do a thing truly believing that it's a truth unaware of the fact that its not really right creating there own parallel reality and breeding in it.
4. The simply honest kind.

My personal concern here is regarding the class 4 "The simply honest one". Is it OK to be in that class and do everything as it should be and not care for anything or anyone else , which might at times mean hurting your personal or someone else's emotion?

 Is it really right to be that honest or is it fine to let it loose sometimes considering others and letting it go for the  moment and not do the right thing/talk?